Betas try to have all the answers, help everyone, look good, have their hair perfect, be the guy that everyone wants them to be.Īrrogant, stubborn, overly opinionated imposes own views closed to others’ thinking Takes high levels of performance for granted expects the impossible and fails to acknowledge what’s required to achieve itīeta males think they need to be perfect. High achiever with a strong sense of mission When things do not go right they get very upset to the point that they might even cry. They may ignore you, sabotage your plans or give off some real attitude.Ĭompetes with peers alienates colleagues reluctant to give others creditīeta males believe it is them against the world. They will never tell you how they really feel. Non-confrontational, resentful, Avoidant, Sarcastic, Manipulates to get his way, uses charm to lure people down his path Kindness, Caring, Concerned about feelings.īetas are always seeking external approval so they shy away from doing anything that could be considered rude.Ĭharismatic, magnetic leader who leads the way Tomorrow is not promised!ĭoesn’t develop strong leaders intimidating creates fear stifles disagreement For example if there is a major loss, infidelity, financial difficulty, breakup or even career change, men, be aware of how you treat those that are closest to you. Ultimately, to become an omega you have to be able to move out of Alpha mode at the most critical of times. If you or someone close to exhibits beta male or alpha male risks, reconsider your behavior. This is not an exact science, however this chart is useful for both women and men. I have created this chart as a reference point. If you would like coaching on this topic, please do not hesitate to reach out! ( or 22).
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If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulty regulating their mood, social or occupational functioning, have suicidal thoughts or has even been stalking someone, please seek professional mental health help. If alpha traits turn into mental illness, it looks a lot like narcissistic personality disorder.
If the beta risks turn into mental illness, it looks a lot like boderline personality disorder. I recommend the following book, it describes the beta attitude and helps passive guys start to develop assertiveness skills) When I Say No I Feel Guilty. And omega males are generally indifferent. Betas males don’t like omegas as they have difficulties keeping up. Alphas don’t like omegas as they can’t pull the sheep over their eyes. The grey area is what sets you apart and allows you to see the bigger picture.
It pains me that society is not teaching assertiveness skills. They get taken advantage of and often become very passive aggressive or resentful. Any cavemen that stood out or acted as the alpha male became an outcast.īeta males typically lack assertiveness skills. Cavemen lived in small communities, populated by very few people. Have you ever seen Dawn of the Croods? The father did not take risks, he kept the family safe by avoiding risks and staying in the cave. I have also heard that it goes back to caveman times. This caused boys growing into men to believe that a women’s definition of a man is right. Theorist argue that beta males usually lack an alpha male mentor. These traits are necessary, but must be balances with alpha male prowess. Beta traits, including ability to provide, kindness, honesty, demonstration of love and affection, intelligence, compatibility, dependability and industriousness. Now less address those beta male personality traits.
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